tailscale, tailscaled: update safesocket port number.

This makes them able to connect to each other on Windows.

cmd/tailscale/tailscale.go

@@ -147,7 +147,7 @@ func runUp(ctx context.Context, args []string) error {
 	prefs.UsePacketFilter = !upArgs.noPacketFilter
 	prefs.AdvertiseRoutes = adv
 
-	c, err := safesocket.Connect(upArgs.socket, 0)
+	c, err := safesocket.Connect(upArgs.socket, 41112)
 	if err != nil {
 		log.Fatalf("safesocket.Connect: %v\n", err)
 	}

cmd/tailscaled/tailscaled.go

@@ -79,6 +79,7 @@ func main() {
 
 	opts := ipnserver.Options{
 		SocketPath:         *socketpath,
+		Port:               41112,
 		StatePath:          *statepath,
 		AutostartStateKey:  globalStateKey,
 		LegacyConfigPath:   paths.LegacyConfigPath,