We removed it in #4806 in favor of the built-in functionality from the
nhooyr.io/websocket package. However, it has an issue with deadlines
that has not been fixed yet (see nhooyr/websocket#350). Temporarily
go back to using a custom wrapper (using the fix from our fork) so that
derpers will stop closing connections too aggressively.
Updates #5921
Signed-off-by: Mihai Parparita <mihai@tailscale.com>