cmd/k8s-operator,k8s-operator,kube/kubetypes: add an option to configure app connector via Connector spec (#13950)

* cmd/k8s-operator,k8s-operator,kube/kubetypes: add an option to configure app connector via Connector spec

Updates tailscale/tailscale#11113

Signed-off-by: Irbe Krumina <irbe@tailscale.com>

cmd/k8s-operator/operator_test.go

@@ -1388,7 +1388,7 @@ func TestTailscaledConfigfileHash(t *testing.T) {
 		parentType:      "svc",
 		hostname:        "default-test",
 		clusterTargetIP: "10.20.30.40",
-		confFileHash:    "e09bededa0379920141cbd0b0dbdf9b8b66545877f9e8397423f5ce3e1ba439e",
+		confFileHash:    "362360188dac62bca8013c8134929fed8efd84b1f410c00873d14a05709b5647",
 		app:             kubetypes.AppIngressProxy,
 	}
 	expectEqual(t, fc, expectedSTS(t, fc, o), nil)
@@ -1399,7 +1399,7 @@ func TestTailscaledConfigfileHash(t *testing.T) {
 		mak.Set(&svc.Annotations, AnnotationHostname, "another-test")
 	})
 	o.hostname = "another-test"
-	o.confFileHash = "5d754cf55463135ee34aa9821f2fd8483b53eb0570c3740c84a086304f427684"
+	o.confFileHash = "20db57cfabc3fc6490f6bb1dc85994e61d255cdfa2a56abb0141736e59f263ef"
 	expectReconciled(t, sr, "default", "test")
 	expectEqual(t, fc, expectedSTS(t, fc, o), nil)
 }