feature/featuretags: add features for c2n, peerapi, advertise/use routes/exit nodes

Saves 262 KB so far. I'm sure I missed some places, but shotizam says
these were the low hanging fruit.

Updates #12614

Change-Id: Ia31c01b454f627e6d0470229aae4e19d615e45e3
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>

net/netmon/state.go

@@ -573,6 +573,9 @@ var disableLikelyHomeRouterIPSelf = envknob.RegisterBool("TS_DEBUG_DISABLE_LIKEL
 // the LAN using that gateway.
 // This is used as the destination for UPnP, NAT-PMP, PCP, etc queries.
 func LikelyHomeRouterIP() (gateway, myIP netip.Addr, ok bool) {
+	if !buildfeatures.HasPortMapper {
+		return
+	}
 	// If we don't have a way to get the home router IP, then we can't do
 	// anything; just return.
 	if likelyHomeRouterIP == nil {