feat(taildrop): fix DirectFileMode, void callbacks, and empty WaitingFiles

- Add SetStagedFileOps to Extension: sets fileOps without enabling
  DirectFileMode, so WASM clients use staged retrieval (WaitingFiles,
  OpenFile, DeleteFile) instead of direct-write mode.
- Add directFileOps bool field: SetFileOps (Android SAF) sets it true;
  SetStagedFileOps (WASM JS) leaves it false. onChangeProfile now uses
  `fops != nil && e.directFileOps` to determine DirectFileMode.
- Add jsCallVoid to jsFileOps: void ops (openWriter, write, closeWriter,
  remove) now use cb(err?: string) instead of cb(null, err: string).
- Fix waitingFiles() returning JSON null when no files are waiting:
  normalise nil slice to empty slice before marshalling.
- Update wireTaildropFileOps to call SetStagedFileOps.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

feature/taildrop/fileops_fs.go

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 // Copyright (c) Tailscale Inc & contributors
 // SPDX-License-Identifier: BSD-3-Clause
-//go:build !android
+//go:build !android && !js
 
 package taildrop