go.mod: bump depaware, add --internal flag to stop hiding internal packages

The hiding of internal packages has hidden things I wanted to see a
few times now. Stop hiding them. This makes depaware.txt output a bit
longer, but not too much. Plus we only really look at it with diffs &
greps anyway; it's not like anybody reads the whole thing.

Updates #12614

Change-Id: I868c89eeeddcaaab63e82371651003629bc9bda8
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>

go.mod

@@ -74,7 +74,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/skip2/go-qrcode v0.0.0-20200617195104-da1b6568686e
 	github.com/studio-b12/gowebdav v0.9.0
 	github.com/tailscale/certstore v0.1.1-0.20231202035212-d3fa0460f47e
-	github.com/tailscale/depaware v0.0.0-20210622194025-720c4b409502
+	github.com/tailscale/depaware v0.0.0-20250112153213-b748de04d81b
 	github.com/tailscale/goexpect v0.0.0-20210902213824-6e8c725cea41
 	github.com/tailscale/golang-x-crypto v0.0.0-20240604161659-3fde5e568aa4
 	github.com/tailscale/goupnp v1.0.1-0.20210804011211-c64d0f06ea05