all: move network monitoring from wgengine/monitor to net/netmon

We're using it in more and more places, and it's not really specific to
our use of Wireguard (and does more just link/interface monitoring).

Also removes the separate interface we had for it in sockstats -- it's
a small enough package (we already pull in all of its dependencies
via other paths) that it's not worth the extra complexity.

Updates #7621
Updates #7850

Signed-off-by: Mihai Parparita <mihai@tailscale.com>

cmd/tailscale/depaware.txt

@@ -13,7 +13,7 @@ tailscale.com/cmd/tailscale dependencies: (generated by github.com/tailscale/dep
         github.com/google/uuid                                       from tailscale.com/util/quarantine+
         github.com/hdevalence/ed25519consensus                       from tailscale.com/tka
    L    github.com/josharian/native                                  from github.com/mdlayher/netlink+
-   L 💣 github.com/jsimonetti/rtnetlink                              from tailscale.com/net/interfaces
+   L 💣 github.com/jsimonetti/rtnetlink                              from tailscale.com/net/interfaces+
    L    github.com/jsimonetti/rtnetlink/internal/unix                from github.com/jsimonetti/rtnetlink
         github.com/kballard/go-shellquote                            from tailscale.com/cmd/tailscale/cli
         github.com/klauspost/compress/flate                          from nhooyr.io/websocket
@@ -74,6 +74,7 @@ tailscale.com/cmd/tailscale dependencies: (generated by github.com/tailscale/dep
         tailscale.com/net/netcheck                                   from tailscale.com/cmd/tailscale/cli
         tailscale.com/net/neterror                                   from tailscale.com/net/netcheck+
         tailscale.com/net/netknob                                    from tailscale.com/net/netns
+        tailscale.com/net/netmon                                     from tailscale.com/net/sockstats
         tailscale.com/net/netns                                      from tailscale.com/derp/derphttp+
         tailscale.com/net/netutil                                    from tailscale.com/client/tailscale+
         tailscale.com/net/packet                                     from tailscale.com/wgengine/filter+