go.mod: bump most deps for start of cycle

Plan9 CI is disabled. 3p dependencies do not build for the target.
Contributor enthusiasm appears to have ceased again, and no usage has
been made.

Skipped gvisor, nfpm, and k8s.

Updates #5794
Updates #8043

Signed-off-by: James Tucker <james@tailscale.com>

.github/workflows/test.yml

@@ -241,9 +241,9 @@ jobs:
             goarch: amd64
           - goos: openbsd
             goarch: amd64
-          # Plan9
-          - goos: plan9
-            goarch: amd64
+          # Plan9 (disabled until 3p dependencies are fixed)
+          # - goos: plan9
+          #   goarch: amd64
 
     runs-on: ubuntu-22.04
     steps: