go.mod: bump mdlayher/netlink and u-root/uio to use Go 1.21 NativeEndian

This finishes the work started in #14616.

Updates #8632

Change-Id: I4dc07d45b1e00c3db32217c03b21b8b1ec19e782
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>

cmd/tailscale/depaware.txt

@@ -26,7 +26,6 @@ tailscale.com/cmd/tailscale dependencies: (generated by github.com/tailscale/dep
         github.com/gorilla/csrf                                      from tailscale.com/client/web
         github.com/gorilla/securecookie                              from github.com/gorilla/csrf
         github.com/hdevalence/ed25519consensus                       from tailscale.com/clientupdate/distsign+
-   L    github.com/josharian/native                                  from github.com/mdlayher/netlink+
    L 💣 github.com/jsimonetti/rtnetlink                              from tailscale.com/net/netmon
    L    github.com/jsimonetti/rtnetlink/internal/unix                from github.com/jsimonetti/rtnetlink
         github.com/kballard/go-shellquote                            from tailscale.com/cmd/tailscale/cli
@@ -219,7 +218,7 @@ tailscale.com/cmd/tailscale dependencies: (generated by github.com/tailscale/dep
         golang.org/x/oauth2/clientcredentials                        from tailscale.com/cmd/tailscale/cli
         golang.org/x/oauth2/internal                                 from golang.org/x/oauth2+
         golang.org/x/sync/errgroup                                   from github.com/mdlayher/socket+
-        golang.org/x/sys/cpu                                         from github.com/josharian/native+
+        golang.org/x/sys/cpu                                         from golang.org/x/crypto/argon2+
   LD    golang.org/x/sys/unix                                        from github.com/google/nftables+
    W    golang.org/x/sys/windows                                     from github.com/dblohm7/wingoes+
    W    golang.org/x/sys/windows/registry                            from github.com/dblohm7/wingoes+