net/sockstats: remove explicit dependency on wgengine/monitor

Followup to #7177 to avoid adding extra dependencies to the CLI. We
instead declare an interface for the link monitor.

Signed-off-by: Mihai Parparita <mihai@tailscale.com>

cmd/tailscale/depaware.txt

@@ -13,7 +13,7 @@ tailscale.com/cmd/tailscale dependencies: (generated by github.com/tailscale/dep
         github.com/google/uuid                                       from tailscale.com/util/quarantine+
         github.com/hdevalence/ed25519consensus                       from tailscale.com/tka
    L    github.com/josharian/native                                  from github.com/mdlayher/netlink+
-   L 💣 github.com/jsimonetti/rtnetlink                              from tailscale.com/net/interfaces+
+   L 💣 github.com/jsimonetti/rtnetlink                              from tailscale.com/net/interfaces
    L    github.com/jsimonetti/rtnetlink/internal/unix                from github.com/jsimonetti/rtnetlink
         github.com/kballard/go-shellquote                            from tailscale.com/cmd/tailscale/cli
         github.com/klauspost/compress/flate                          from nhooyr.io/websocket
@@ -127,7 +127,6 @@ tailscale.com/cmd/tailscale dependencies: (generated by github.com/tailscale/dep
         tailscale.com/version/distro                                 from tailscale.com/cmd/tailscale/cli+
         tailscale.com/wgengine/capture                               from tailscale.com/cmd/tailscale/cli
         tailscale.com/wgengine/filter                                from tailscale.com/types/netmap
-        tailscale.com/wgengine/monitor                               from tailscale.com/net/sockstats
         golang.org/x/crypto/argon2                                   from tailscale.com/tka
         golang.org/x/crypto/blake2b                                  from golang.org/x/crypto/nacl/box+
         golang.org/x/crypto/blake2s                                  from tailscale.com/control/controlbase+